Despite containing the worst movie of the Berlinale (and the only bad one), this last weekend were definitely the best days in my book. The venues were relaxed, all those business-y people were gone and I saw the best and most enjoyable films on these days. That is largely due to this extremely successful Sunday!
When I was lining up with the old man the Sunday before, some girl from Hongkong came up to me and asked me if I could buy tickets for the Wednesday screening of “Close-Knit” (preceded by the question if I was Chinese yadda yadda). Since I figured the screening was not particularly hard to get anyways, I agreed. She was so happy it worked out that she didn’t want any change from the 25 euros she gave me. Well, I hope she and her friend enjoyed the film was much as I did.
Since the tickets were so cheap, I also bought some for Pixelmatsch and wife-cousin so we can go together, and for awhile I wasn’t sure if they were going to come. So I asked around and shockingly none of my friends/acquaintances were interested in seeing the film! Pixelmatsch and Co. ended up coming, and the others definitely missed out, hurr hurr.

Karera ga Honki de Amu toki wa (Close-Knit)
Japan 2017, Naoko Ogigami, 127′
I called the film “Rent-a-neko 2” when I told Pixelmatsch about it, but in reality I sensed that this film would be different from the other Ogigami films I have seen. Before the screening, I thought it would be similar to a Banana Yoshimoto adaptation with more of a feel-good feeling, but I was utterly wrong. “Close-Knit” did have a lot of feel-good scenes, but unlike Ogigami’s other films, it lives much less in an ideal dream world and confronts its characters’s real life problems with more realism and allows them to feel actual sadness. At the same time, the general tone of the film is utterly optimistic and the exact opposite of the melancholy pervading most of Yoshimoto’s books.
For me this direct confrontation actually made the film good. For the first hour or so, I was a little unsure about what to think. It seemed like a generic Japanese film to me, and so utterly predictable: There was Tomo’s first slightly awkward meeting with Rinko, a trans-woman who enjoys having large breasts, Rinko’s characterization as very very feminine woman who makes cute chara-ben and takes care of elderly, a flashback about Rinko’s past and how she opened up to her mother etc. etc. I guess I largely found Rinko a little clichéd. Yes, I know that it means a lot to trans-people to look like their gender, but from my own experience you can look and feel womanly with small breasts too – after all you don’t have to be biologically a man to lack a decolleté. (Though I do realize that this wisdom is nearly impossible to achieve at teenage age.) And of course Rinko’s sheer amazingness and caring personality makes Tomo slowly reconsider what is “normal” or what it means to be a woman or a mother. As a result, for awhile I found myself significantly more bored than watching “On body and soul”, and I remembered that all of Ogigami’s films feel a little slow.
But then the storyline took a turn and became more dramatic in a good way. We see what it actually means to live in a society that has so much trouble accepting anything outside the norm, with some spiteful anonymous person calling the police to come to their house and check whether Tomo is being abused, or Rinko being forced to stay overnight in a hospital room with men because they wouldn’t recognize her as a woman. I was touched when Tomo sprayed her friend’s mother’s face with dish detergent out of anger when she called Rinko a freak, which made Tomo’s transformation into a more open-minded person very satisfying to watch. (People in the audience loudly cheered when she did that, by the way.) I also liked the rest of the revelations (much unlike the first flashback), where Tomo’s mother’s side is slowly being revealed. At the same time, the second part still focuses strongly on Rinko’s coming to terms with her sex change (and parting with her manly body parts) and the knitting of 108 woolen penises (with tax!) made it very heartwarming. Oh and I loved the end in which Tomo, of course, ended up going back to her mother’s who may or may not have a change of heart.
On a side note: True to Ogigami fashion, there are still idyllic aspects. Tomo’s new family essentially has no internal conflicts (only external), and Rinko’s mother is amazingly accepting and supportive of her daughter’s transsexuality. I think this is fine, because it gives the film its sweet atmosphere, and it’s not wholly unrealistic either: When you are an unusual person, you will over time find your little island of relationships with people who will accept you as you are, no matter how hostile the larger environment is.
OK so this posting contained big spoilers and I apologize for that, but I am sure that the film is enjoyable even when you know the entire story already. I think this is Ogigami’s strongest film to date (amongst the ones I have seen), and I know that people cried during it (I certainly could not imagine that happening for any of her other films).








