
Parada
I am a little restless and I cannot sit through a movie without getting distracted (it’s “Dernier étage gauche gauche” and the fact that I have to really concentrate to be able to understand their banlieue French doesn’t help). Since I am also not tired, I figured it would be.
We are back from the PIFF! This time we managed to watch 4 movies, and coming back from it, I am overwhelmed by feelings – nostalgy for all the PIFFs we had, happiness to see O again, complete exhaustion which makes it hard for me to get out of bed and handle O’s tantrums, excitement about our next trips and finally some almost crippling worries which I won’t divulge any further because they don’t actually concern me directly. In any case, it felt so immensely good to go through the films to review our experiences this time, and recall to mind the highlights (a sauna in our Helsinki bathroom, some great modern art in the KUMU and Kiasma museums, walking through super pretty Tallinn by “nightfall”, trying various Estonian foods – kama is awesome – and of course, the movies). After coming back, I feel an intense desire to watch more movies but perhaps it’s not so easy without the lovely company at the PIFF.
In order to make a huge train of thought leading to “Parada”, I realize that we also are a bunch of unlikely friends. Sure, we are all somewhat affluent, middle-class hipster kids who enjoy the same things in the city (architecture, art museums, good food) and have a significant overlap in our movie tastes, but we also have somewhat different cultural backgrounds, we are all from a different place and there is some noticeable age gap (I admit that Shii is right about that). Our AirBnB host in Tallinn instantly pegged us as “quite an international crowd” and immediately proceeded to recommend young expat foodie places to us. What makes “Parada” so great and work so well is how its characters are also lovably similar. Of course there also is the laughing out loud gay humor (I love how it showcases so intensely how incredibly gay almost every manly ritual is), but most of all, I was mesmerized by much positivity and understanding it promotes between so wildly different people.
The only criticism I have ever heard about the story is about its melodramatic ending. I don’t care. I think it’s a fitting ending, and it’s not like the story claims to be (traditionally) realistic. As with every good comedy, the realism is in the overdone, so an overdone absurd melodramatic ending totally fits in my book. As for me, I was rather moved by it, and if those journalists had looked up the background for the film, it looks pretty real. I have the suspicion that some critics wanted a 100% light-hearted comedy and simply don’t want to face the fact that some activists actually risk their lives out there. I am totally with the plight of the people in this case.
Nevertheless, the best part of the story was the road trip where Limun goes to find his comrades in war. OK, I admit that I am a sucker for road trips, but I found that part, their friendship and their final acceptance of the gays so utterly hilarious. (“Do you know what a sexual minority is?” – “Of course! It’s you the Serbians, no?”) I am not surprised how the film did well in all of ex-Yugoslavia, because it makes so much sense to me that deep down they actually all love each other. (Germans and Poles probably do too, but I am not so sure about the French.)
All in all, I am not surprised that “Parada” is topping Pixelmatsch’s ranking at the Berlinale in 2012. It tops no.2 and 3 by far.