
Mo sheng (Forgetting to Know you, ??)
China 2013, Quan Ling, 89′
TL;DR not really good people doing not really intelligent things. However loli.
The film shows, through our usual low-budget independent festival movie from Asia style, a slow spiral of a couple from an unknown small city (give or take a million people) somewhere near Chongqing from regular life with their incredibly cute little daughter who is the hidden star of the film, to distrust, lies and fundamental estrangement. Both of them have their flaws. They do not respect each other, they search through each other’s phones, the man visits cabaret clubs, the woman provokes his jealousy all the time with a young cab driver and of course there is his mother whose birthday is forgotten by the wife, which is the trigger to most of the following dissolution of their marriage. While it does not obviously employ the techniques of a soap opera it pulls you in like one and you start to wonder how low will they fall and if there is any solution for them to stay together and be happy.

Will you still love me tomorrow?
Taiwan 2013, Arvin Chen, 104′
The quiet glasses salesman Weichung has been married for nine years to Feng, his plain childhood friend. They have a son and life rolls along smoothly until Feng decides together with her parents that she wants another child. While at the engagement party of his younger sister Mandy and San-san he meets through a chance encounter with gay wedding planner and old friend Stephen who encourages him to take up “being gay” again so he slowly starts considering it until he actually falls in love with a flight attendant who visits his shop.
TL;DR embrace the gay
While I did not watch his first movie “Au revoir Taipeh” which was shown in 2010, I have seen the very cute “Lane 256” (the one about the couple with the incompetent moving crew), which was a part of 10+10. I seem to have a new tradition: romantic comedies from Taiwan at the Kino International. A very nice tradition because both films have turned out very good so far. While the main characters occasionally are quite cliché gay it does not really hurt because as someone who has grown up in the Bay Area Chen knows the diversity of the community and most of his gay characters are “regular” people. Most importantly no one in this movie takes themselves too seriously and the dialogues are full of witty one-liners and most of the main characters get lost in wonderfully shrewd short delusional segments. There is also a hilarious subplot about Mandy not wanting to marry the timid but loyal San-san and Weichung’s gay friends trying all kinds of stuff to get them together again. Besides being a warm portrait of Weichung and his friends it also shows the painful way of life for many gay Taiwanese: While in the quite progressive Taipeh you can be openly gay in your 20s it is expected that you wind down, get settled and start a family for your parents when you reach thirty. In this case, with the now platonic love and understanding between Feng and Weichung after tensions they manage to find an agreement to both live comfortably while being parents to their son.
On a side note the movie is also hilariously current with Mandy watching Korean dramas and imagining the flower boy giving her life advice in Korean while she talks back to him in Mandarin or the gay bar playing Korean idol pop.

